When the boy becomes a man

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn’t choose to rest in the other person’s heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don’t love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don’t choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.

Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.

They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying.

You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.

Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. Sorry I cant make you laugh these days, I can’t even smile..pero dont worry I’ll be ok..

As, i write this post…I am thinkin of where it all started, where it all began.. and unfortunately, it seems that it’s also where it has to end. A simple dream that I shared is now something that i need to protect, to nourish and to have… something which can’t be bought… something that can’t be forgotten… something that i only have, is slowly slipping away…. it’s respect. We have been through a lot my friends and i thank each one of you for being there… This is actually one of the biggest decision that i am making, not because of anger, envy or selfishness.. but rather a trace of fear, that i might wake up one day and everything is gone…as so my self respect and belief. Far from all the the wrong thoughts of people around… i built not an empire to trample the inferior and wipe out the weak, but instead i built a tool for craftmanship, wisdom and most importantly for friendship.As much as i want to keep my emotions inside and just let it be, I believe that everything has it’s own right time… and i have a strong faith that now is that time for this actions. I don’t need to name, names… bec the truth is you know who you are, and what you did…. always keep in mind that in a game of war, suppression is never an option., because it is just bound to release everything that is deep within. It’s hard to be “US”… its has always been a no-win situation…. and now it paints the vivid picture of what all these seems like….a competition… and what’s worst some people here are just using me against myself…. funny, but true… in my entire biological existence, this is the most excruaciating feeling that i have ever felt…like a knife that grills the smallest particle of my cell to the very tip… and with this at hand… i’ll just step away from all this… because i realized that once trust is broken…. everything will follow. A real man’s power is not measured by what you can do more… but it is the power to know, when to stop….and for the rest who still believes us www.ckcian.fr-bb.com is the official online community of christ the King Collegeuntil here…thanks for being a part of who i am today, you have my respect…you know where to find me… :wink:God Speed ,

Elcan

I dont know if I did the right choice. But Im doing this to lessen my pains. I’m doing this, simply because I know it’s the best for the both of us.I feel as if you had grown into my heart. I do not know how I am going to be able to say goodbye to you, to the point that I am dreading it now (which is why I am writing). So I’m keeping my distance..

I’m getting there…

so nag arkila ko ug singer para kantahan ka..oo, ingun ana ka kakusog sa ako..

Wala lang magawa..

Mostly written in tagalog phrase, so hear their silent screams..

Pinapaikot mo lang ako. Nagsasawa na ako. Mabuti pang patayin mlo na lang ako.
electric fan

Hindi lahat ng walang salawal ay bastos.
Winnie the Pooh

Alam mo ba wala akong ibang hinangad kundi ang mapalapit sa iyo. Pero patuloy ang pag-iwas mo.
ipis (cockroach)

Hala! Sige magpakasasa ka! Alam ko namang katawan ko lang ang habol mo.
hipon (shrimp)

Ayoko na! Pag nagmamahal ako lagi na lang maraming tao ang nagagalit! Wala ba akong karapatang magmahal?!?
gasolina (gasoline)

Hindi lahat ng green ay masustansya.
plema (phlegm)

Hindi ko hinahangad na ipagmalaki mo na ako’y sa iyo. Ayoko ko lang naman na sa harap ng maraming tao ganun mo na lang ako itanggi.
utot (fart)

Sawang sawa na ako palagi nalang akong pinagpapasa-pasahan, pagod na pagod na ako.
basketball

You never know what you have till you lose it. And once you lose it, you can never get it back
snatcher

Ginawa ko naman lahat para sumaya ka. Mahirap ba talagang makontento sa isa? Bakit palipat-lipat ka?
TV

Hindi lahat ng maasim may vitamin c.
kilikili (armpit)

Paano tayo makakabuo kung hindi ako papatong sa iyo?
Lego blocks

Hindi lahat ng dugo puwedeng i-donate.
regla (menstruation)

After ng mga kapalpakang ginawa ko kahapon, niisip kong i quotes yung mga lines ng mga nadamay at naki-usi so here we go :

Churva Quoute : Naisip ko mag blog hop na lang muna. Pinuntahan ko ang yung blog na nag nenok ng smileys ng may smileys.Sabi nga nung pinagkunan niya,ok lng sana kung nagpaalam man lang, or kung hindi talaga niya feel eh sana in-upload niya na lang sa ibang URL,o binigyan man lang ng credit yung pinagkunan,kaso hindi, kaya ayun,HULI KA!!!

Wag na lang yung iba, palpak lang naman lahat, hehehe. anyway this post is about “The Search for the 2008 Philippines 10 Best Humor” o mas kilala sa tawag na Project Lafftrip Laffapalooza! na pakolo ni badoodles, so post ko lang yung mga binoto ko.

1. www.kokeymonster.com - (pano ba naman kinopya ko yung smilies niya)hehe. The best thing about this blog is ang kanyang kakayahan na gawing katatawan ang mga simpleng pangyayari sa buhay niya. Ito ay may temang di angkop sa mga batang mambabasa patnubay ng magulang ay kailangan. lol.

2.www.gasti.wordpress.com- isa pa itoh, bago ako mag simula sa trabaho di ko nalilimutang bumisita sa blog niya. Bale Blog palang almusal na!

3.Loser’s Realm- isang tunay na paglalarawan ng “Don’t juddge a book by it’s cover. Don’t mind the design just read the content.lol. Ewan ko pero parang meron din ditong tema dito na di angkop sa mga batang mambabasa. At mas lalo na sa mga magulang. lol

Para sa karagdagang information tungkol sa kalokohang ito ay maari po lamang pumunta sa link na ito blog ni badoodles

as i’m writing this post I really feel humiliated by the fact that I copy as you all know the direct links of kuya Ferbert’s smilies from his cbox (www.kokeymonster.com), thus I wanted to extend my apologies to kuya Ferbert. I had already delated the smilies and I don’t know if would be able to add more dahil marami pa akong mga ginagawa. This post is really address to you kuya Ferbert. Di ko alam, akala ko kasi okey lang,hinde ko naiisip na pweding mag bandwidth exceed yung account sa photobucket. I’m really sorry for this mess.

Sa lahat ng nadamay, sorry na rin…

Love Quotes :

Magpakalunod sa mga romantic love quotations na kinuha pa mula sa mga nakadisplay na Hallmark greeting cards sa may National bookstore at mga dashboard decoration sa mga dyip na papuntang Pantranco. Ito ay quoted sa mga taong nakalipas at nabubuhay pa. May gusto ka bang quote na wala dito? Email mo sa akin lahat.Just hit the love quote box at the right corner of my blog at my instant message kana, click the message to view other messages.

Copongcopong Pinoy Slang Dict.

Mga repapips, para sa mga mahilig sa burloloy sa kanilang saputin, dekwat na ng code para maging astigin sa mga tropa. Salamat nga pala sa pinagmulan ng listahan na ito, ang copongcopong pinoy slang dictionary. Na hindi ako sigurado kung online pa, paki-check naman tas sabihin mo sa akin kung andun pa.

Slang Pinoy Words :

Hindi pa kuntento sa copongcopong? Kung gayon ay baka para sa iyo ang bagong set ng slang words na nakuha sa bagong source. Paka-iingat lang dahil karamihan sa mga ito ay explicit, at paniguradong hindi magugustuhan ng nanay mo kapag nakita sa blog mo. At hindi lahat ay siguradong totoo, as of now, dahil kung lagi mo itong ginamit araw-araw sa pakikipag-usap sa mga kaklase’t kaibigan, edi magiging pinoy slang talaga. pinoyslang.com

Computer Quotes :

Isang computer geek? Narito na ang samu’t saring quotes na paniguradong makakarelate ka at sa mga ginagawa mo. Sawa na ba sa mga Big-O notations? Nabubuwang ka na ba sa walang hanggang pagdedebug? Magbasa na mga nakakatuwang quotes na sinabi mismo ng mga taong bumuo sa nalalaman mong computing industry.

Love Text Messages :

Mahilig magsenti? Lagi ka bang lugmok sa pag-ibig? Ito na ang kategoryang para sa iyo! Magpakababad sa mahigit 1000+ love text messages at kung may load ay ipadala na rin sa mga minamahal na hindi ka kayang mahalin nyahahaha! =(

Joke Text :

Para sa mga mahilig magpadala ng jokes sa mga pare, sa mga mare, sa mga brother, sa mga sister, ang lakas mo sa load. Kaya hinay-hinay muna sa pagtetext at sabihin mo sa kanila na basahin na lang ang mga ito sa aking Blog.

Silly Thoughts :

Wala ka bang mapili at umabot ka na sa dulo ng listahan? Kumuha ka na ng mga kaisipang talagang mapapaisip ka talaga kapag nabasa mo.

Anime Quotes :

Anime Ba kamo? Para sa mga mahilig sa anime, eto na ang babagay sa inyo hatid sa atin mula sa Anime Lives!. Hindi ko na sila nagawang i-dub sa tagalog dahil hindi ko kaya, hehe. Enjoy!

Harry Potter Quotes :

Pumayag na rin ang site na pinagkunan ko nito na gamitin ko ang harry potter quotes. Para ngang wala ata silang pakialam e, hehe. Sabi kasi bahala ako sa gusto ko, parang ganun, siyempre ingles nila sinabi.

Mr. Jacinto Alinga quote :

Description
The fundamental training on the current trends in Photography and its implication on yearbook and school publications resulted in the formation of a select group of 7 CKC Shutterbugs.

Production of an excellent yearbook in the cyber-age is the goal of this composite team from the elementary, high school and college editorial boards.

The one day workshop was made possible through the collaborative work of the school administration, the yearbook staff under the mentorship of Sherwin Lozada, and the complementary assistance from the library staff.

Trainers from Cagayan de Oro’s leading Printing Press - LEGACY, facilitated the entire event. It was a mixture of lecture and practicum work. The day may have been too tight but it ushered in the beginning of an on-line Yearbook Production. This e-group is dedicated for everyone for an uninterrupted access to the entire production work

Come join us and share you finest moments!

Shutterbugz Update :
Readland Quote :
Praised be Jesus and Mary!

These amazing and talented students were crops of Christ the King
College, Gingoog City! They were chosen to participate a seminar in
connection to School Paper Publication and Basic Campus Journalism.
The students above were trained to be photojournalists under the hands
of Mr. Alingasa, an exeptional photojournalist! These students were
still CKCians by heart but 2 of them were already in Liceo de Cagayan
Univ., 3 of them already graduated College, 1 was in CKC highschool,
and I in Xavier University- Ateneo de Cagayan!

I’ll keep on posting for some of our latest updates! thanks! God Bless!

Nagamit ko na yung iba rito, hahaha, try niyo baka magwork..madali lang naman malalaman ko di nag work eh, BLACK EYE! lol. Gud luck!

Minamalat na naman ang puso ko.
Paano kasi, laging sinisigaw ang pangalan mo.

Uy, picture tayo!
Para ma-develop tayo!

Lecture mo ba ako?
Lab kasi kita.

Pwede ba kita maging driver?
Para ikaw na magpapatakbo ng buhay ko.

Pinaglihi ka ba sa keyboard?
Kasi type kita.

I hate to say this, but… you are like my underwear.
‘Coz i can’t last a day without you!

P’wede ba kitang maging sidecar?
Single kasi ako eh.

May lisensya ka ba?
‘Coz you’re driving me crazy.

May kilala ka bang gumagawa ng relo?
May sira ata relo ko. Pag ikaw kasi kasama ko, humihinto ang oras.

Am I a bad shooter?
‘Coz i keep on missing you.

Naniniwala ka ba sa love at first sight?
O gusto mong dumaan ulit ako?

Mabilis ka siguro sa mga puzzle noh?
Kasi kakasimula pa lang ng araw ko, pero nabuo mo na agad.

Excuse me, are you a dictionary?
Because you give meaning to my life.

Bangin ka ba?
Nahuhulog kasi ako sa’yo.

Pustiso ka ba?
Kasi i can’t smile without you.

Pagod na pagod ka na noh?
Maghapon at magdamag ka na kasing tumatakbo sa isipan ko eh.

Anong height mo?
Ha?! Pano ka nagkasya sa loob ng puso ko?

Sana T na lang ako.
Para I’m always right next to U

Are you Jamaican??
Kasi Ja-maican me crazy!!

Ako ay isang exam.
Kaya sagutin mo na ako.

Hinde tayo tao. Hinde tayo hayop.
Bagay tayo. Bagay talaga tayo.

Ikaw ba may-ari ng Crayola?
Ikaw kasi nagbibigay ng kulay sa buhay ko.

Kung ikaw ay bola at ako ang player, mashu-shoot ba kita?
Hindi, para lagi kita mamimiss.

Can i take your picture?
Coz i want to show Santa exactly what i want for Christmas!

Exam ka ba?
Gustong gusto na kasi kitang i-take home eh!

Mahilig ka ba sa asukal?
Ang tamis kasi ng mga ngiti mo.

Ibibili kita ng salbabida.
Kasi malulunod ka sa pagmamahal ko.

Grabe nakakatawa yung mga pick-up lines noh? hahaha! May alam ka pa bang iba?
Wala na akong maisip eh.
Coz all i ever think of is you.

I’m a bee.
Can you be my honey?

Nakakatakot di ba ang multo?
Pero mas nakakatakot kapag nawala ka sa buhay ko.

May butas ba puso mo?
Kasi natrap na ako sa loob, can’t find my way out!

Hey, did you fart?
Coz you blew me away!

Favorite subject mo ba Geometry.
Kasi kahit saang angle ka tignan ang ganda mo eh!