When the boy becomes a man

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn’t choose to rest in the other person’s heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don’t love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don’t choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.

Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.

They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying.

You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.

Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life. Sorry I cant make you laugh these days, I can’t even smile..pero dont worry I’ll be ok..

As, i write this post…I am thinkin of where it all started, where it all began.. and unfortunately, it seems that it’s also where it has to end. A simple dream that I shared is now something that i need to protect, to nourish and to have… something which can’t be bought… something that can’t be forgotten… something that i only have, is slowly slipping away…. it’s respect. We have been through a lot my friends and i thank each one of you for being there… This is actually one of the biggest decision that i am making, not because of anger, envy or selfishness.. but rather a trace of fear, that i might wake up one day and everything is gone…as so my self respect and belief. Far from all the the wrong thoughts of people around… i built not an empire to trample the inferior and wipe out the weak, but instead i built a tool for craftmanship, wisdom and most importantly for friendship.As much as i want to keep my emotions inside and just let it be, I believe that everything has it’s own right time… and i have a strong faith that now is that time for this actions. I don’t need to name, names… bec the truth is you know who you are, and what you did…. always keep in mind that in a game of war, suppression is never an option., because it is just bound to release everything that is deep within. It’s hard to be “US”… its has always been a no-win situation…. and now it paints the vivid picture of what all these seems like….a competition… and what’s worst some people here are just using me against myself…. funny, but true… in my entire biological existence, this is the most excruaciating feeling that i have ever felt…like a knife that grills the smallest particle of my cell to the very tip… and with this at hand… i’ll just step away from all this… because i realized that once trust is broken…. everything will follow. A real man’s power is not measured by what you can do more… but it is the power to know, when to stop….and for the rest who still believes us www.ckcian.fr-bb.com is the official online community of christ the King Collegeuntil here…thanks for being a part of who i am today, you have my respect…you know where to find me… :wink:God Speed ,

Elcan

I dont know if I did the right choice. But Im doing this to lessen my pains. I’m doing this, simply because I know it’s the best for the both of us.I feel as if you had grown into my heart. I do not know how I am going to be able to say goodbye to you, to the point that I am dreading it now (which is why I am writing). So I’m keeping my distance..

I’m getting there…

so nag arkila ko ug singer para kantahan ka..oo, ingun ana ka kakusog sa ako..